ʻŌlelo Hawaiʻi
Ke aloha mau
Pehea e Kākoʻo ai i kāu Hoa Pili e Hakakā Nei me ko Lākou Olakino Noʻonoʻo
Ke noho ka mea āu e aloha ai i loko o kahi wā pōʻeleʻele, makemake ʻoe e hoʻoponopono. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ma ka maʻamau, a ʻaʻole kēlā ka hana. Eia ke ʻano e noho pili ai, e noho pono ai, a e noho maikaʻi pū ai ʻoe i ko lākou ʻimi ʻana i ko lākou ala.
Ka mālama ʻana i ka huila i ke ola i kahi pilina manawa lōʻihi
Emi ka ʻiʻini mua no ʻaneʻane nā mea a pau. ʻAʻole kēlā he hōʻailona makaʻu no kāu pilina — ʻo ia ka hana a ka kamaʻāina. Eia ka mea a ka noiʻi e ʻōlelo nei e mālama maoli ai i ka pili ʻana o nā kānaka ʻelua, a me nā mea liʻiliʻi hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka i kēia pule.
Ka Hānai Keiki ma ke ʻano he Hui: Ke Pili Mau ʻana ma hope o nā Keiki
Hiki i ka loaʻa ʻana o kekahi keiki ke huki mālie i kekahi kāne a wāhine i kaʻawale ʻoiai ua luhi loa ʻolua e ʻike. Eia ke kumu e hana ai kēlā, ka mea a ka noiʻi e ʻōlelo nei e pale maoli ai i kekahi pilina, a me nā ala liʻiliʻi e ʻimi mau ai kekahi i kekahi i nā makahiki piha kou mau lima.
Nā hana maʻa o ka pilina: nā hana liʻiliʻi e mālama paʻa ai i ke aloha
Kūkulu ʻia ke aloha e mau ana ma loko o nā minuke liʻiliʻi a hana hou ʻia he nui i ʻike ʻole ʻia e ka hapanui o nā kāne wahine, ʻaʻole ma nā hana nui. Eia ka mea e hana ana kēlā mau hana liʻiliʻi ma lalo o ka ʻili, a me kekahi mau mea maʻalahi e mālama ai.
Ke kūkākūkā ʻana no ke kālā me ka lilo ʻole i hakakā
ʻO ke kālā kekahi o nā mea i hakakā pinepine ai nā kāne a me nā wāhine, a hoʻi pinepine mai kēia mau hakakā. Eia ke kumu e wela koke ai kēia mau kūkākūkā, a pehea e mālama ai i loko o ke ʻano e pili pū ai ʻolua ma kahi o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana iā ʻolua.
Ka ʻē ʻana mālie: ka hopu ʻana i ka mokuʻāina ma mua o ka lōʻihi loa
ʻAʻole pau ka hapanui o nā pilina ma kahi hakakā hoʻokahi. Lahilahi mālie lākou, ma nā manawa liʻiliʻi a pau ʻaʻole kekahi e kaha ma ke kalena. Eia ke ʻano e ʻike mua ai i ka neʻe ʻē, a me ka mea e pani ʻiʻo ai i ka āwāwa.
Ka ulu ʻana ma ke ʻano he kanaka me ka ʻokoʻa ʻole
ʻAʻole ʻoe ke kanaka like āu ma ka wā i hui ai ʻolua, a pēlā nō kāu hoa. ʻAʻole ia ka mea hoʻoweliweli i ka pilina lōʻihi. Eia ke ʻano e mau ai ka loli ʻana o nā kanaka ʻelua i loko o ka hale hoʻokahi me ka lilo mālie ʻole i poʻe malihini.
Pehea e ʻIke ai inā he Wā Paʻakikī a he Pilikia Maoli paha
Hālāwai kēlā me kēia pilina lōʻihi me nā wā paʻakikī. ʻO ka ʻāpana paʻakikī ʻo ka ʻike i nā mea e hala wale a me nā mea e hoʻāʻo mālū nei e haʻi i kekahi mea iā ʻoe. Eia ke ʻano e heluhelu ai i ka ʻokoʻa me ka makaʻu ʻole.
Ke ʻano hana o ka ʻike ʻana i ka maikaʻi i loko o kāu hoa pili
Ua kūkulu ʻia kou lolo e hoʻomanaʻo i ka mea e hoʻonāukiuki ai a e poina i ka mea āu e mahalo ai. Eia ke kumu e ʻanāʻanai mālie ai kēia i kekahi pilina maikaʻi, a he ʻano hana liʻiliʻi i kēlā me kēia lā e hoʻohuli ai i ke kaupaona i hope i ka pumehana.
Ka moʻolelo lapuwale o ka Mea Hoʻokahi: pehea e hana maoli ai ke aloha e mau ana
ʻO ka manaʻo aia kekahi kanaka hemolele hoʻokahi e kali ana iā ʻoe, he aloha ia, he hōʻoluʻolu, a he ʻanaʻana mālie. Eia ka mea a ka noiʻi e ʻōlelo ai e mālama maoli ai i ke aloha e ola ana, a he aha kona maikaʻi ʻoi aku ma mua o ka moʻolelo kupua.
Ke kūlike ʻole ko ʻolua makemake pili kino
Makemake kekahi o ʻolua iā ia ma ka pinepine aʻe ma mua o kekahi. ʻAʻole ia he hōʻailona ua haki ko ʻolua pilina, a ʻoi loa aku kona laha ma mua o kā ʻolua e manaʻo ai. Eia ka mea e hana maoli nei, a me ke ʻano e loaʻa ai i nā kāne wahine ko lāua ala ma loko ona me ka helu ʻole.
Pehea e hāpai ai i ke kūkākūkā kāne-wahine me kāu hoa pili
Hiki i ka manaʻo e ʻimi kōkua ke ʻano like me he hoʻopiʻi, ʻoiai ʻo kāu manaʻo he kono ia. Eia ke ala e hāpai ai i loko o ke ʻano "ke noho pū nei au me ʻoe i kēia" ma mua o "ʻo ʻoe ka pilikia."
Pehea e hoʻomau ai i ka launa ʻana me kāu hoa pili ma hope o nā makahiki he nui pū
ʻAʻole pono ka leʻaleʻa e nalo no ka mea wale nō ua kamaʻāina ka pilina. Eia ka mea e hoʻomau maoli ai i nā kānaka ʻelua e koho i kekahi i kekahi, i kēlā me kēia makahiki, a me ke ala e hoʻomaka hou ai mai kahi ʻoe i kēia pō.
Pehea e Mau ai ka Pilina Hoaaloha me kāu Hoa Pili
ʻAʻole pau ka hapanui o nā pilina lōʻihi i ka hakakā nui. Hoʻōki mālie lākou i ka leʻaleʻa. Eia ke ʻano e mālama ai ka pilina hoaaloha ma lalo o ke aloha i ke ola, a me nā ala liʻiliʻi a maʻamau āu e mālama ai iā ia.
Ka pilina pili ma hope o ka wā mahaʻoi
ʻAʻole loa ka ʻiʻini mua e mau a mau, a ʻo kona emi ʻana ʻaʻole ia he hōʻailona ua hewa kekahi mea. Eia ka mea e pani maoli iā ia, a me ke ʻano e hoʻomau ai nā kāne wahine i ka pili ʻana ke mālie nā ahi laniwela.
Ka māhele ʻana i ka ukana noʻonoʻo: ke kaʻana like i ka hana ʻike ʻole ʻia
Hoʻomanaʻo kekahi o ʻolua i nā hālāwai niho, nā makana lā hānau, a me ke pau ʻana o ka waiū. Inā ʻo ʻoe mau kēlā, he maoli ka luhi ʻoiai me he mea lā ua māhele ʻnā hana. Eia ke ala e ʻike maopopo ai i ka hana ʻike ʻole ʻia a hoʻomaka e hali pū.
Ke makemake kekahi o ʻolua e neʻe, e hoʻololi hana, a lawe pilikia paha
Ke ʻiʻini nui nei kekahi o ʻolua i kahi loli. Manaʻo kekahi e hiō ana ka papahele. ʻAʻole ʻo kēlā ʻāwaha he hōʻailona he ʻokoʻa kā ʻolua mea e makemake nei mai ka pilina — ʻo ka maʻamau aia kahi manaʻolana ʻōlelo ʻole ʻia, a me kahi makaʻu, ʻaʻole ʻolua i ʻōlelo leo nui. Eia ke ʻano e kamaʻilio ai no ia me ka lanakila ʻole o kekahi o ʻolua.
